Best one I've gotten back: "Not nearly recently enough! I'm an active fellow, and I like to know that people I'm interested in are as well. And while I'm not too much of a snob about it, I need to know what she's going to make me listen to.
If she says "my vacation house in Bali" I know she's probably got money and spends time on exotic islands.
If she says "my job" I know that work is super important to her.
After the initial introductory emails, when communication gets a little more relaxed, I tend to end messages with a list of questions (and then I judge their responses).
Consider doing the same: Allows me to figure out, if we ever dated to the point of sleepovers, whether she'd want to get up and go jogging at 9 A. I could write an answer to this question that would last pages and pages.
But before we get started on When you first meet someone you are interested in, you can spend more energy trying to make sure that they like you, than thinking about whether or not you like them.
You tell your best stories and try hard to be interesting.
This discussion is primarily for sites such as where you write the online dating first message yourself (see more on how works if you’re not familiar with what I’m referring to).
This advice may still be helpful for sites such as e Harmony or Chemistry.com, however these services guide the communication and there is less “emailing” early on.
No one wants to date some one who does not talk, is boring or nervous. The trick is to select from among these the questions that are closest to your heart and whose answers are important to you.
So dating experts advise that short of having a paper full of questions, you must be ready with a list of interesting, impressive and enjoyable questions that will keep the conversation thriving in those five-ten minutes. You must go about the dating event with a positive attitude. Also remember never to be tongue-tied and paralyzed if you can't remember the important questions; there are so many inane things to discuss and enjoy!
The answer to that may seem obvious, but just in case it isn’t let me say: writing a great first message in online dating is critical to success or failure in your dating life.