You’re done with worrying about what others think, adhering to stupid-ass rules prescribed by stupid ass-people, and you realize who you want in your inner circle and who you want banished forever and ever. Why would anyone want to be another sheep among millions of sheep? Amanda Chatel Amanda is a writer who divides her time between NYC and Paris.
It’s not that you’ve become a cantankerous bitch in your older years, but just that you’ve lived long enough to be f*cking over pretty much everything. She's a regular contributor to Bustle, Glamour, Mic, and Livingly.
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The SIA study found all sorts of interesting things.
For example, SIA says single urban women are slightly more likely to be actively seeking a committed relationship — and they want their partner to make at least as much money as they do, have a similar education level as them, have a successful career, and be physically attractive.
So, women are forced to if it will hurt them has extended so deeply that I have laughed off sexual assault so that I would not hurt the feelings of the man who assaulted me. A few years after that, I asked someone out, and was rejected by them and that experience split me wide open.
Yes, being rejected was painful, but it was nothing — compared to the pain I absorbed trying to save men from the pain of rejection.
In the immortal words of Bikini Kill, suck my left one. If you don’t get what you want and how you want it, you throw being polite out the window and woman-the-f*ck-up about it. While in your earlier years some situations may have called for biting one’s tongue, it’s time to f*ck that. You have no more f*cks to give them or what your life will be like without them – it won’t be a loss, that’s for sure. Your mistakes do not define you; they’re merely pieces in your life that have made you who you are. Mistakes do not hold you back, do not open doors to judgment, or ruin your life. In some not so breaking new, social media is not real life. Also, who even knows if that mascara is Dior or f*cking Maybelline? When you give a f*ck, give it 150 percent, when you don’t also give it 150 percent.
You broke up for a reason and that reason is probably somewhere between him being awful and him being the worst, so it’s your job not to give any f*cks about him or what he might think of you. As a grown ass woman, you’re not just a walk-on in your bedroom, but the f*cking star. Some people, even if they’re not cognizant of it, are horrific, toxic influences in our lives. Owning a Louis Vuitton bag or only wearing Chanel makeup is not going to make you a better person. You need to decide what deserves your f*cks and what doesn’t.The term "I don't give a flying fuck" Originally meant that you could not put a price on such a item or service, but after translation and over use, the statement now means the exact opposite of this.I need one thing from a partner that few men have: sustained participation in an activity that helps with emotional balance. Church could do it (depending on the Church), yoga could do it they were really into it.The great culprit, our intrepid researchers claim, is who feel like such losers? Why does nobody feel the need to speculate on the shortcomings of single men?At some point, you reach an age where you can’t possibly, even if you tried, give any less of a f*ck. If someone says or does something that pisses you off or disrespects you in any way, then speak up. They’re necessary obstacles and not only do you not give a f*ck about them, but you’re practically grateful for them. Some people spend their whole lives trying to fit in only to realize that those who want to belong are just f*cking boring! People “liking” your tweet or “unfriending” you on Facebook is not something to get your panties in a twist over. You should never half-ass anything, especially your f*cks.Women in NYC may or may not agree with those assessments.