You may think he likes talking on the phone, he probably thinks "I have to do this...
this is what girls want." So when he phones, you should make small talk for 10 minutes, then politely excuse yourself and get off the phone.
Sample Document Learning How to Small-talk Finding Deeper Topics to Discuss Demonstrating Good Conversation Skills Community Q&A It can be hard to converse with strangers, dates, and people you meet at parties. Prepare fun and interesting topics of conversation and listen to others carefully in order to put yourself (and everyone else) at ease.
For example your partner says: “Oh, I can’t wait for this new movie “X” to come on cinemas.
I think I have watched the trailer for like 10 times already.
I've got a good thing going :) and I don't want to lose it.
I've been talking with this girl for well over 4 weeks now, talked on the phone a bunch. I've done all the small talk stuff that I can think of without going into "Grey" Areas I don't want to sound like a complete moron, but I honestly don't know what to do next?? Find something in a book or movie that touched you or was thought provoking?
Every word underlined in the text above could make for a new topic you could jump to. And every new statement she makes can bring up a lot of other conversational topics.
to talk to each other, but when you're in a long-distance relationship that plays out almost entirely by phone, it's a fact that sometimes you simply run out of things to say.
Or do you even think she is really still interested in meeting me? The problem is that you spend all your time online talking about everything that there is really no need to go out and meet you. You don't want to waste your time on the phone or in front of a computer and then the person you are giving this info to vanishes. Then why the phuck do you even want to meet her if you can't find anything to talk about?
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We are suppose to meet this Friday but our texts for the past few days have been "whats up? I want to meet up with her but feel like when we do we wouldn't have anything to talk about and we would have an awkward silence, lol. The whole atmosphere of where you two are going will help with the talking part too. Give it a day and say hello and spend a few minutes just asking about the day like youve been doing. that way it will give you a couple of days of stuff to chat about because you can say, Oh such and such happened then it will start a conversation. At first we talked about a lot of things and it was fun but after 3-4 days our conversations got shorter and shorter.