Sad to say that, the vast majority of men who I spoke to who were single and ready to date, refused to date 'fat girls'.
Ironic given that, if you ask most men to pick out a girl who's a size 14 they'd probably point at a dress size 22 - brainwashed by the media to think that anything over a size 10 is plus size and quite in the dark about what real sizes look like on real women.
And yet, some of the hottest women I know are 'curvy' - and leave most thin girls for dead in the sexy stakes. We are constantly fed with the message that bigger is bad, that a person is seen as having failed when they can't comply to the social ideal, and in turn, a person who dates a person who's bigger, by accepting it, has too in someway failed, or settled for something less than magazine perfect.
Today's cougar is fun-loving, smart, knows what she wants-and isn't afraid to go after it.
Everyone can be a cougar, from top-level executives, soccer moms, community leaders, and newly single women who want the fun of a relationship without all the demands and baggage of traditional relationships. There is no standard age for cougars and Cougar Life welcomes women in their 30s, 40s, 50s and up.
The reason why they can attract a hot woman is that women CAN be attracted in other ways.
Some women are extremely picky and will not accept a fat guy, but the vast majority of women are much more flexible about what they find attractive in a guy than most men realize. If you’re a fat guy and you’re looking to get laid, get a girlfriend or find yourself a wife, what you need to do is improve your ability to attract women when you interact with them.
So I figured I’d create a handy how-to list, which will hopefully be helpful to those ready to pop on out of the fat closet, or who already have but aren’t having much success.
This is written in a pretty heteronormative manner, which I apologize for, but the experiences I’m most familiar with are men trying to chase women here. Mentioning this first because it’s SUPER important, and it’s the first thing guys tend to mess up on.
The only requirement is that you're a woman who enjoys dating younger guys.
The younger men who date sexy, older women are affectionately referred to as "cubs".
Since 2008, Cougar Life has grown to become one of the largest online dating sites catering exclusively to cougar singles and hot young men looking to date them.