Or it could signal something more troublesome if the profile's also low on written details, cautions Laurie Davis, founder of online dating consultancy e Flirt Expert and author of 2. Most online dating sites allow you space to say more about yourself, in addition to answering the form questions and prompts.
"If your match skipped this section, again, you should question whether or not he's actually looking for a relationship," says Davis.
Over the past couple of years I just keep on seeing the same mistakes over and over and over again, and the really crazy part is that it’s not hard to fix these things, and go from zero dates to having more options than you have time for.
So, today I’m going to go over a few rules for writing an attractive dating profile, which if followed correctly should improve your results significantly: In the world of dating/seduction advice there is a lot of talk about status and value and the importance of displaying this status or value to women in order to attract them.
"People who live a comfortable lifestyle want someone who can do the things they do, but it's not necessary to say that outright," says e Flirt founder Laurie Davis, whose book is due out in 2013.
Instead, Davis suggests searching for people within your income bracket (which is an option on many sites, though a study by dating site Ok Cupid revealed that people typically inflate this number by 20%) or looking for other clues in their profiles, such as similar favorite travel destinations. He hears: I've been burned, and I have major trust issues. "You're not going to scare off the liars," cautions Evan Marc Katz, a dating coach and author of .
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Here, statements women make in their profiles that chase away eligible bachelors. He hears: I'm not financially secure, and I believe men should take care of women. " asks Eli*, a 41-year-old from Orlando, FL, who's used online dating sites.
You may only mean you don't want a financial wreck for a boyfriend, but this request is a red flag for men.
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