It’s been a policy of mine to avoid making ANY comment along those lines, thinking that women hear stuff like that from guys all the time on first dates and that it might seem like a “line,” or a come-on, or insincere.
…And as you say goodnight give her a long kiss on the cheek.
w how to do is this: I do not comment on a woman’s appearance or offer compliments even if I think she’s a knockout.
"The best strategy for a great first date is to go into it with the goal of simply enjoying yourself, instead of harboring an agenda to win him over," says Lionel Tiger, Ph D, a Charles Darwin professor of anthropology at Rutgers University and author of "That way, you'll also come across as tenacious and carefree, which are intrinsically attractive qualities."If you and this guy clicked when you met, it's tempting to leap into the future mentally — could he be The One?
Stop right there and rein in your expectations or you won't have fun.
Don’t put additional pressure on yourself by allowing your mind to wander off into the wedding planning stage. In general, though, I would advise you (and anyone) to ask your date lots of questions. This serves two purposes: 1) it gives your date an opportunity to hear from you and make some mental notes and 2) it gives you an opportunity to express yourself and share a personal story or two. I don't know if you're male or female, but I'll just say this: the way to a woman's heart is through her ears. Singleness has taught her patience, deepened her walk with the Lord and afforded her countless (who's counting anyway?
That means the other person is already interested enough to want to spend time with you. Then, if you hear your date share an answer or make a comment about something or someone that you share in common or know in common, then by all means jump into the conversation and talk about it!How about an article for guys about the appropriate, sincere, meaningful, simple ways to show a woman we’re physically attracted to her on first dates or other initial points of connection?It seems like decent guys can do it in ways that are awkward for the woman, not Your question resonated with me because I used to be the female version of you."It ensures the date won't seem like a job interview," adds Hankin.So recount a funny moment that happened at work earlier in the day or describe a crazy experience that a friend of yours recently went through with an ex-boyfriend. -- All Rights Reserved you're a single guy still looking for your dream girl, I'm sure you've absorbed lots of advice on how best to meet and date women by now. Therefore, assuming you know enough not to show up on a first date looking like you just combed your hair with an M-80 or wearing cowboy boots and shorts, maybe a few of the following ideas can give you just enough of an edge to make the difference between Date #2 with an exciting little fox -- and a date with ol' Rosie Palm instead.