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While we, of course, always love to hear from those who are married to members of the military, this time we wanted to hear from those who have not yet said, “I Do”!
Having a relationship with someone in the military can present many challenges (married or not) BUT there are also incredible blessings and lessons learned.
When it comes to dating, women have been shown to give the edge to profession and providership over appearance. You also might be able to make a case that some women are looking for a knight in shining white armor to rescue them.
The kind of person who joins the military has already passed through a certain number of professional gates. One psychologist in a Times of India article on men in uniform, suggested that women are attracted to the “chivalry” exuded in the mannerisms of men in uniform.
These women said that the military guys they dated on line were more likely to call them back. They called when they said they were going to call. Tell us your story When it comes to finding a life partner, chances are that we will be doing more of that on the Internet, what factors do you think are most important?
“That will get you a long way,” one of the guys told me. Thousands of members of the United States armed forces currently use our site to find a date, serious relationship, and even marriage.Our members are enthralled by the military lifestyle, and the excitement and adventures that come along with dating military singles.The military life is not for everyone, and many of the heroic military men and women who serve our country find it difficult to date.Spontaneous dating is just not possible for the thousands of US military singles currently in the middle of active tours of duty or at training camp.What explains the edge military guys have when it comes to online dating? Among our own audiences at Spouse X events, meeting online is always in the top three ways military folks find a mate. We are also always getting letters from women who “met” a military guy online who turns out to be a scammer begging them for money. But for military guys to have an actual advantage before other occupations? Haven’t those women seen the articles about service members on foodstamps? Don’t they get that for every passionate, romantic, picture-worthy homecoming kiss there are (on average) 180 days in which the only lips that touch your own smell like the inside of a sippy cup?? In one study, military men were second in preference only to lawyers. (In case you are interested, women who list themselves as being in law enforcement or the military are among the least successful in the online dating game—which probably tells you something important about their potential partners.) What do these online women think they are getting when they click open the military package? Willing to commit to a job for at least four years at a time.