They follow up, they text, we talk, make plans…it’s all good. On the other hand, I don’t know how to manage this.
She would hope that if she gave me enough sexual pleasure, I would realize that she was the girl for me.
During those moments, a woman often try her very best to please you during sex in the hope that you will possibly change your mind and commit to her…even if she has done that 10 times over the past few months.
After confirming to a woman that I was indeed seeing other women, I would then usually draw her into me, hug her, start kissing her neck and grabbing her butt at the same time (in other words, begin to lovingly devour her), firmly caressing her all over her body and then have sex with her.
Instead of me being pulled into drama and useless conversation about committing, I would use my masculinity to lead her and I out of that conversation and into a more enjoyable emotional state of being.
However, this is not something I have ever done before and I am having a hard time with the idea of juggling.
The problem is that I really like both of them and they both seem to be really amazing guys.
The good news is that both of them wrote me back and I have been seeing both for the past 2-3 weeks.
Things have been going well, and I give a lot of credit to what I have learned from your book, emails and this site.
Over at Refinery29, the editors have put together a guide with stories from real women who share their tips on how to figure out if a dating rotation is right for you, plus tips to help you get really good at all that juggling.