Being single again at midlife can represent a huge challenge for many of us. Others like us have walked in our shoes, and know what it is like to be single at midlife.
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Many people roll up, write a half-hearted profile, find a couple of blurry photos, join a dating site, sit back and hope for the best. Have you ever asked yourself the question, ‘what do I really want? Are you online dating because some friends said you should give it a go or maybe because it’s kind of expected as a way to show you’re through your divorce or break up?
However I’m guessing that you wish to have a positive online dating experience, go on some great dates and, who knows, maybe meet someone you’re going to spend a lot of time with. And the more time you spend thinking about why you’re signing up and what you’re looking for, the better your experience will be. If you know you’re ready to move forward in life again, you’re going to give yourself a much better chance at getting this right, and most importantly: you’ll enjoy yourself more if you take some time to really think about what you want before you start.
* While the tendency is for men to look for women of a significantly younger vintage, there are plenty of men who are looking for someone around their own age. Recognize that dating is just one aspect of your life.
In fact, there are a growing number (in my anecdotal study) of couples where the women are a few years older than her lover. As I read about what brought these couples together, it is almost always based on mutual interests and a deeply held sense of knowing “this is the one.” So perhaps the first question you ask a potential date might be: what section of the paper do you read first? Imagine for a moment that your life is made up of a portfolio of activities.
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I’d like to propose that there is actually a middle ground and that the thought process and actions reflected in this middle ground thinking will yield two critical outcomes: enjoyment during (most of ) the dating process and a higher probability of achieving the results you are looking for.
The following are things you need to have in place to work from this middle ground: 1.
When our life is out of alignment with our values we can feel dissatisfied, resentful and unhappy.
I’d suggest you get really honest with yourself before you begin. Do you want to meet someone to spend your life with or someone to have a couple of dates with?
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